Sofie talks to Bear about pets, multiple personalities, navigating mental health diagnosis and services, using a private instagram as a diary, being a black fat sex worker, unusual fetishes, body domming, practicing acceptance, not voting, nihilism and what they want in their sandwich.

Trigger warning – Suicide, OCD, bipolar, manic depression, PTSD, Borderline Personality Disorder, sex, racism, festishisation, mental health issues, therapy, schizophrenia, medications, multiple personalities, alcohol, dissociative amnesia, trauma, fatphobia, dieting, sex work, BDSM, bullying, Brexit, Trump, doctors, dentists.